Introducing the MAMA CODE

At FITMOM we believe in moms. In our 16 year history Andrea Page’s Original Fitmom programs has served and supported over 10,000 women and their families. Through our own personal experiences as mothers and countless hours spent listening, supporting and getting to know our clients, we have learned a thing or two, so this weeks blog post is about sharing some of what we know with you.

This November, during our M.A.M.A. month we wanted to introduce you to our Mama CODE.  It stands for Connect with Community, Opportunities for Self Care, Diet & Nutrition and Exercise.  The MAMA CODE are FITMOM’s Best Practices.   We know that these 4 pillars help to create a strong foundation to build a happier, more confident mother.  Some of these objectives are easier to attain than others.   We also recognize that this can be even more challenging if a woman is dealing with any emotional issues in the postpartum period, including postpartum depression and anxiety.   

Over the next few weeks we hope you consider adding the CODE to your mothering experience. Spend a few minutes thinking about each of these categories and think about the steps you can take to ensure that each one has presence in your own life.

Connect with Community.  What does that look like for you?  For many motherhood can often be an overwhelming and isolating experience.  More of us are separated by distance from our immediate families.  Grandparents may not be able (by choice or circumstance) to offer hands on support.   

Getting out of the house with your baby can be a challenge, but meeting other mothers and exploring the services that your community has to offer can help make your maternity leave experience more enjoyable.  Public Health, Libraries and the Ontario Early Years Centres all offer free programs & support groups to mothers.  Find a local group or class that you would like to attend and book it into your calendar.  

Finding activities that you enjoy will help to make this a habit and give you something to look forward to, especially in the colder months.  If there is a program that interests you BOOK IT today!  

Opportunities for self-care.  This one is a doozy!  However, we can’t stress enough how important it is for you to be kind to yourself, often! The job of mothering is 24/7 and if you don’t take a few moments to fill your cup, you will be left feeling depleted.  

Why not get started right now! Grab a notepad and write down 2-3 things that you like to do just for you.  Is it enjoying a cup of tea curled up with a magazine or Netflix?  Perhaps it’s meeting a good friend for coffee or practicing meditation.  Once you identify what you like to do, then pull out your calendar and book it.  

Next tell your partner ‘This is what I need”.  Often we anticipate that our partners will just encourage us to take the time to reboot, but if you don't tell them this is what you need, they don’t think there is a problem, or they just assume that you take that time during the day with baby (yeah-right!).  

Mother’s need consistent and regular breaks from the responsibility of motherhood.  Let your partner help you.  If he is unable or unwilling then consider asking a friend and return the favour back to her.  

Diet & Nutrition can be a beast of its own, and there is an element of planning or preparation that is often involved to make eating well a reality.  So how can we make this better?  

Andrea, the founder of FITMOM, spent a few years living in Alberta.  In her community most of the spouses worked at the oil rigs and would spend much of their time away.  As a result the women were often left on their own, but how they handled this inspired Andrea greatly.  She observed women mothering in community and a return to that philosophy of “it takes a village”.  These women supported, cared and loved one another in a way that our modern society has drifted from.  They often gathered together weekly to prepare meals.  One woman would host, the children would be contained, entertained by older siblings or held by those with free hands as the group prepared healthy meals for the week.  We think this is a fun way to make healthy meals, reduce workload and provide an opportunity to support and care for each other.  Is this something you can make happen?  

Finally, how can Exercise be a part of your daily (or weekly) experience?  All of the research shows that when women engage in regular exercise (3-5 times/week) they have an improved mental state, can tolerate stress better, see an improvement in sleep patterns and have more energy to complete daily tasks.  

Making exercise happen can take a little planning, but it is definitely doable!  The first step is to book it into your calendar.  Exercise has to be a priority, and you should treat it like any appointment you have.  Find a class you like, register and pay for it, and then go. If group classes aren’t your thing than make the commitment to get out for daily walks.   

We often wait for motivation to inspire us to get out there, but that’s not how motivation works.  When it comes to exercise sometimes you often have to drag yourself to do it.  Often putting on your running shoes is the hardest part.  But once they’re on, you are halfway there, just continue out of the house.  As you continue to make regular exercise a part of your daily or weekly routine the habit becomes established and then you will see an increase in motivation.     

As the month of November continues, we want to hear from you!  Please share your stories on how you apply the CODE to your life.  You can also make recommendations or offer suggestions on how others can integrate the CODE into their lives.  

With love,

Your FITMOM Leadership Team

Andrea, Jennifer & Sue

Gentle exercises for postpartum recovery

In the early days and weeks postpartum a new mama and her family should be focusing on adjusting to new sleeping patterns (sleeping when the baby is sleeping), spending time skin to skin to establish breastfeeding and learning and responding to a new infants cues.  

Taking these steps helps to boost confidence in parenting, promotes rest which is essential to recovery after birth and allows for natural attachment and bonding to take place between a new baby and her parents.

If you have had an uncomplicated vaginal delivery, most women are usually able to resume low-impact exercises by 6 weeks postpartum.  Cesarean birth or a more complicated vaginal birth often requires more time to heal, typically women are able to resume exercising by  8-10 weeks postpartum.  

It is recommended that your Care Provider clear you for exercise prior to resuming a structured fitness program.  Keep in mind that every woman recovers differently, it's important to listen to your body. Start slow and gradually increase time and intensity.

Gentle stretching and isolated abdominal exercises are usually safe to resume soon after giving birth. As you continue to recover, you can gradually resume exercise, especially if you were exercising regularly prior to delivery. It's best to take it day by day and only do what you can, being mindful not to push yourself too hard.  

Below are some gentle exercises that may be of benefit to you in the early days and weeks after baby.

Looking after a baby is hard work!  Be kind and gentle to yourself as you adjust to the new responsibilities and the demands that parenting requires.

Why workout with your kids?

Bonding through baby wearing

At FITMOM we are big supporters of exercising with kids in tow.  

Our FITMOM+Baby classes incorporate baby wearing giving mom and baby the opportunity to connect and bond through movement and touch.  Through these activities baby's learn about the world around them.  

Physical contact allows a baby to explore the world around them, communicate their needs and wants, enhances attachment and improves their emotional well being.

Babies and older children are naturally active and we want to do everything we can to encourage this!  This is why I am so excited to introduce  our FITMOM+Toddler fitness classes.  These classes are a spin off from our popular FITMOM+Baby classes, but tailored to meet the needs of growing tots!

The FITMOM+Toddler classes will foster a toddlers natural desire for movement while mimicking mommy and using fun analogies of animals and familiar objects to

Just like Mom!

entertain them.

Benefits of regular exercise for young children include:

• an increase in self-esteem & confidence
• a lifelong commitment to regular exercise because it was introduced at a young age
• reducing the instances of obesity and decreasing the risk of serious illnesses

FITMOM+Toddler classes start Tuesday October 13th in Oshawa.  Register at www.fitmomfitness.com/durham. Perfect class for moms + tots with baby siblings :)

  





 

Why fall is a great time to get fit

It feels like summer has just begun... and yet the fall starts creeping up on us so quickly! Summer is a great time of the year. The weather is hot and sunny, there's no school, everyone is going on some kind of vacation and it's a time where you just want to take it easy. But, summer is also a time that can wreak havoc on your fitness and nutrition plans as you enjoy your vacations, your time at the cottage, your outdoor activities or you just plain have fun. If this is the case for you, here are some great reasons why the fall is the perfect time to get fit: 

 1. Life becomes a little bit easier to schedule: The kids go back to school and summer vacations in the office are finished (you're no longer having to cover for your office mate while they're on vacation!). Routines are reintroduced and parents are feeling recharged after their summer holidays (hopefully!). Everyone is excited about the new and exciting things that are being planned for the upcoming year. 

2. The weather is more cooperative: It's getting a bit cooler, but there's still some daylight in the early evening making outdoor activities quite pleasant. If you're exercising outdoors, you'll experience the beautiful fall colours as the leaves begin to change and you'll find breathing a bit easier with the cooler temperatures. If you're exercising indoors, the days are still long and it doesn't ever seem too late when there's still daylight! 

3. You can build it into your routine: Now that your holidays are over, it's time to make fitness part of your weekly routine. This is easy when so many programs are starting up again! If you need a class to get you going, you can register for it and put it in your calendar. Once you start going, it takes about 30 days to make it a habit, so there's plenty of time before the next holiday (Thanksgiving!) rolls around. By the time the Christmas holidays arrive, your fitness habits will be fully integrated into your schedule, you'll be feeling great and there will be less risk of over indulging during the holidays. 

4. It's the planning season: At many workplaces, fall is the time planning for the next calendar year gets into full swing. Budgets are made, performance metrics are created and both personal and corporate goals are set. Why not plan for your fitness needs at the same time? 

5. It's never too late to start! Why not this fall? You can do it! Regardless of why you decide to kick start your fitness regime this fall, always remember the way you feel post workout and use that as your motivation to keep going each week! 

This article was written by Susan McDonald, owner and operator of FITMOM Ottawa.

Experience a FITMOM+Baby Class

I am very excited about an upcoming event that is scheduled for Thursday May 7th at 10:30am.  I have partnered with Alana McClure, a wonderful local photographer, to bring you our very first Workout & Win: Captured Moments.  

The event is open to all current, past and future FITMOM members. Enjoy a fantastic workout with me and receive an amazing, professional, 'captured' moment from Alana.

Enter your favourite 'Captured Moment ' into our Grand Prize Contest!! The winner is going to get a pretty fantastic bounty!!!!!

The winner of the Workout & Win: Captured Moment contest will win:

•  A Free 8 week class pass to FITMOM Durham
•  A Complimentary session with Alana &
•  A $100 Gift Card to use towards Mommy Connections Durham's program

I can't wait to see the images that Alana captures and I wonder who the lucky winner will be? Maybe it will be you!!!

 

This event would not be possible without the wonderful support of Alana McClure Photography & Mommy Connections Durham who have both contributed to our Grand Prize Bounty!

 

Remember this event is free. Just bring your baby & your smile and please RSVP to the event page. A great opportunity to sample a FITMOM class. 

 

Visit our Facebook Event Page to RSVP!

Just had a baby? Here are 5 best practices to follow!

I do a lot of thinking when I run and  today was no exception. 

I was thinking about the best things a new mom can do got to ensure her best recovery and be a FITMOM after baby.  So, below are 6 things you should do to look after yourself and stay healthy, fit and strong after baby.

The first is to make sure you get plenty of rest, and that you eat well and stay hydrated in the early weeks following the birth of your baby. Looking after a newborn is lots of hard work and we often overlook our basic needs as we tend to our new baby.  It is so important for family & friends to support this transition to motherhood by taking over household duties like cooking and cleaning and making sure a new mama is eating and drinking.

As you begin your recovery you can engage in some regular, easy walks with your baby.  A gentle and slow walk around the block is often enough in the early days post delivery.  Take it slow, especially if recovering from any perennial trauma or cesarean birth.  It is important that you don't overexert  yourself, just head out doors for 10 -15 minutes each day, slowly progressing to a longer duration. Gentle walking can help ease your muscles into recovery after all the hard work of labour and it helps to regulate bowel function and improve your sleep.  Regular walks are also good for baby because it helps them to settle into predictable routines.  Stretching is also really important.  Here's a link to our FITMOM video for recovery after childbirth.  You can begin to add in these exercises once your baby is 2 weeks old.  Always make sure to check with your OB/Midwife prior to engaging in any exercises.

Before you progress into a more structured fitness routine, usually around 6 weeks post-partum in an uncomplicated vaginal delivery or 8-10 weeks after a cesarean birth, you should have your Abdominals assessed for Diastasis Recti.  We do these checks at your first FITMOM class, but you can do it on yourself or your OB/Midwife or Physical Therapist can check for you.  If you have any core weakness, regardless of any separation, you should address it sooner than later.  A strong Core is essential for proper function and daily movement.

Have a pelvic floor assessment completed by a Physical Therapist with additional training in Pelvic Floor.  This simple exam can save you time, money and embarrassment.  Although urinary incontinence is common during pregnancy and post-partum (you pee a little when you laugh, jump or sneeze) it is not normal.  An assessment can be preventative and can save you from back pain, pubic pain, hip pain or even pelvic organ prolapse.  An internal exam is required BUT the amazing women who are trained in this field are non-judgmental, fully trained and are amazing at reducing any anxiety about the exam itself.  Your Midwives & OBBYN's do not check for the integrity of your pelvic floor function.  They will exam you to ensure that any injury has healed (meaning the stitches have dissolved, no infection etc), but only a pelvic floor therapist is trained in healthy muscular function of the pelvic floor. 

I highly recommend that you incorporate an element of strength training/resistance training to your cardiovascular program.  Did you know that women lose an average of 5lbs of muscle mass each decade?  This leaves us more susceptible to injury & increases our risk of osteoporosis.   So, if you want strong bones and want to prevent osteoporosis as you age, start lifting things up and down.  Also, women who incorporate strength training have more lean muscle mass and a higher metabolism which are pluses in my book :)  

Eat well.  Funny, but we are back to my first two points!    The life of a new mom is busy, so busy that you often forget to eat OR wait too long in between meals.  This is a terrible habit to get into because it puts your body into survival mode.  This means higher levels of cortisol (stress hormones) and can cause other hormonal levels to become unbalanced.  Make sure you have easy access to fruits, vegetables, protein and complex carbohydrates throughout the day.  A great snack is apple slices with natural peanut butter or carrots & cucumber with hummus.  Put these foods in highly visible areas and you will be more inclined to grab them when you are hungry vs. reaching for the chocolates.

Finally, it is important to rest.  Sleep is more broken these days, gone are the 6-8 hours of uninterrupted, glorious, deep sleep. So when your well intending family tells you during your pregnancy to sleep when your baby is sleeping, we're not joking!  If you can't sleep, then lie down with no distraction and just breathe deeply for 15 minutes.  Still find that hard? Pick a meditation app for your iphone or iPad, there are hundreds of free aps available on iTunes, so there is lots of choice out there, simply find one you like!

If you are able to put these things into practice I guarantee that you will have more energy, increased stamina, a better mood and you will be a FITMOM!

Is it safe to exercise when pregnant?

There are still tons of myths floating around that exercise during pregnancy is not safe, or that exercise is contributing to miscarriage in early pregnancy.  The reality is that there is no scientific evidence to link exercise with miscarriage, especially in low-risk, healthy women.  Certainly experiencing a loss is sad, disappointing and not the happy adventure that most couples are hoping for, however in most cases miscarriages are chromosomal in nature, so there is nothing a woman has done to cause it to happen.   We hope that the more women and families that know that exercising during early pregnancy is safe, the more they will be encouraged to start. 

Women who are planning to become pregnant are encouraged to begin a regular exercise program as they prepare to make other healthy lifestyle adjustments in preparation for a new baby.  Once you find out you are pregnancy then maintaining your exercise routine throughout your pregnancy will make you feel more comfortable and help to minimize the common aches and pains associated with pregnancy and will help you prepare for birth.  Recent studies have shown that babies born to exercising mothers have more lean muscle mass and healthier birth weight and stronger cardiovascular systems.  A mom who is fit also walks into labour with greater ease because her body will release more beta-endorphins, your bodies natural pain reliever, then her  non-exercising counterpart.

If you have been completely sedentary then it is recommended that you start with 15 minutes of regular and consistent exercise (like walking) building up to 30 minutes 5 times/week.

Activities can include walking, stair climbing, light housekeeping, yoga, swimming, and resistance training (with hand weights or bands). A fitness program that includes cardiovascular conditioning and muscle conditioning is of utmost importance because you will be better able to withstand the physical demands of pregnancy and improve your joint stability and alignment.   It is also important to include a stretching component, like yoga, into your schedule to open and release tension that is often accompanying pregnancy.

Women who are already physically active prior to becoming pregnant can continue with their regular program.  After 16 weeks you should no longer exercise lying on your back and your Core Conditioning program should be modified (no crunches) to accommodate your growing baby.

A good prenatal fitness program should be balanced and provide all of the above PLUS the ability to create a sense of community and connection with other women and pregnant moms. 

Here's a great video with current information about the do's and don'ts of exercising during pregnancy!

 

 

 

If you are pregnant and looking for more information regarding exercise during pregnancy, please do not hesitate to contact me!  Better  yet, consider joining our FITMOM2Be prenatal fitness program currently offered in Oshawa, ON Thursday evenings at the YWCA Durham.  For more information please visit our website www.fitmomfitness.com/durham 

Who is your fitness role model?

I am really fortunate that I grew up in a very active household.  My parents were amazing role models who quietly demonstrated healthy habits that have deeply affected how my brother and I live our lives, and the lives our families lead today.

My mom and dad are still avid and energetic walkers.  As a kid my brother and I would have to run to keep up with their long leg strides, and I can remember thinking that I would never be able to catch up with them.  Family outings included regular walks/hikes at our local conservation parks where I would likely whine and complain and my younger brother would hunt for sticks far too large for his 7 year old body. During the spring and summer we would head out for family walks or bike rides in our neighborhood along the water front in South Ajax. 

My father commuted into the city every day for over 20 years.  Before supper he would engage in his nightly ritual of calisthenic exercises- push-ups, sit- ups, squats and lunges, and stretches.  I would lie on their bed and watch him as I shared the story of my day.  When I would ask him why he was exercising he told me because it made him feel better after being at a desk working all day.  This routine never took too long, 20 minutes tops before we would all head downstairs to the kitchen table where we would eat dinner as a family.

I remember one summer in particular where we spent the entire season at Petticoat creek swimming and playing outside all day.  My mom often reflects back on this time as being in the best shape of her life that summer because she swam every day.  I just remember having fun.

In my parents basement there is an assortment of small fitness equipment and a variety of DVD's.  However, unlike most fitness equipment, this stuff doesn't collect dust or store laundry.  Light weights are stored under the couch and are picked up regularly and repeatedly. 

Our meals were pretty healthy and cooked at home.  I feel like the amount of 'convenience' foods were purchased far less than other households.  We only had pop on special occasions and bags of chips were rarely purchased.  We drank water from tall glasses and refilled throughout the day.

I am thankful that I have had such great role models in my life.  It makes it easier for me to demonstrate these healthy habits for my boys.  Maybe you grew up in a similar way, or perhaps you are trying to change how you live so that you and your family are healthier and more active.  Either way, being health conscious does not have to take a lot of time, effort or energy.  The small things really do add up and they can leave a very lasting impression.

What are some things you are doing to live a healthy and active life for you and your family? 

Did you know......

Did you know that traditional abdominal crunches increase downward pressure on your pelvic floor? 


For women who are dealing with pelvic floor weakness or dysfunction post partum, repetitive crunches can actually make their condition worse! 

I know from speaking with hundreds of new moms that far too many women return to this outdated abdominal exercises soon after birth in an attempt flatten their post partum tummy, often because they did not know what exercise to do in it's place.  There are far more effective abdominal exercises that will flatten and tone your tummy after baby much better than the traditional crunch.

An isometric Belly Breathe is a much better option to strengthen your abdominals and your pelvic floor too!

Try it now:

1. Sit upright on a chair or stability ball, feet planted on the floor hip width apart.  Make sure your tailbone is not tucked under, allow for a natural curve in your lower spine
2. Place your hands on either side of your rib cage
3. Inhale deeply and feel your ribs expand
4. As you exhale, close your ribs

To progress this exercise and engage your pelvic floor too do the steps above and then add this:
5. Inhale and expand your ribs
6. As you exhale imagine picking up a jelly bean, or blue berry with your pelvic floor and close your ribs
7. Inhale and expand your ribs and relax your pelvic floor

Repeat 8-10 times. 2-3 sets




 

How Often Should I exercise after baby?

This is a very common question we get from many women who are preparing to exercise after baby. 

Ideally, a new mom will gradually work into a fitness routine at her own pace and comfort level, with an increase in intensity and time as she gains strength & confidence.  However, one of the most common pitfalls a woman makes is committing to too few training sessions. 

In fact, working out only once a week can hinder your progress and make you more susceptible to injury. 

It is recommended that women train 3-5 times per week for optimal effect.  This will prevent injury, improve strength & performance and achieve results.  Workouts should provide lots of variety and can be done with very little time commitment.

Overtraining is also important to consider.  Women who are exercising too frequently are at risk of over use injuries and adrenal fatigue.   

It is important that women ensure plenty of rest, hydration with a focus on a healthy, balanced diet.  Keep your training sessions to a minimum of 3 times/ week and a maximum or 5 times/week for optimal results.

 

The FITMOM Experience: What baby's learn in a FITMOM+Baby class

Baby wearing offers a wonderful opportunity for a new mom and her little one to connect.  Our FITMOM+Baby classes incorporates baby wearing, not only to develop strength and improved conditioning for a new mom, but for her baby too!

This week I thought I would share some great information on the wonderful benefits a baby experiences when being worn in a carrier, a wrap or being held during a FITMOM+Baby Class.

When a new baby is carried upright in a carrier/wrap they are able to practice compensatory moments.  Their muscular strength is enhanced and they develop better control of their fine motor skills.  As you move, walk, lunge, or squat your baby's body naturally works against gravity.  This natural response to your movement helps your baby develop the muscles necessary to hold their head up and support themselves against your body.

Another benefit of baby wearing in class is improving your baby's sense of balance.  An infants vestibular system is turned on the more he/she is carried.  As your baby experiences a variety of your movements he is able to respond instinctively to maintain his own balance.  Carrying, rocking and swaying with your baby in an upright position helps them to feel more secure in large spaces. 

Babies who are worn in a carrier are able to experience more of the world around them, but in a way that helps them feel secure.  Studies show that a baby's ability to be alert is increased by the amount of time he spends upright (Heller, 1994).  The more alert they are, the more they can learn.

Finally, when a baby is worn all of her senses are stimulated.  A baby receives tactile information when touching her mother's skin.  Her olfactory senses are stimulated when she is nursing.  Her vestibular system is stimulated by the movements her mother makes.  She is visually stimulated by the world around her and she can respond to the sounds and conversations around her.

Whether in a baby carrier, wrap or in mommy's arms your baby can also benefit from the FITMOM experience!  Join us today and experience the joy of movement with your baby.  FITMOM+Baby classes are offered in Pickering & Oshawa.  Classes are a rolling admission so you can start anytime.

Quick and Healthy Breakfast ideas for the new mom

We all know that breakfast is the most important meal of the day. We also know that this is a meal that many moms skip.  Not having enough time is often the reason for missing this important meal. 

That's why this week we are sharing our 5 fast, simple and healthy breakfasts that will get your metabolism off to a great start and have you feeling energized for the first part of your day! 

Whenever possible, be sure to include adequate protein.  Protein helps to regulate and balance your hormones and metabolism, so you are less likely to experience higher cortisol levels in the early morning hours.  A healthy breakfast will inspire more energy and better choices for the rest of your day!

1) Oatmeal- This warm breakfast cereal is the BEST way to start your day.  It's loaded with fiber and research has shown that it can help control blood pressure and reducing blood cholesterol levels.  Here's a delicious and healthy breakfast that you can make ahead of time so you can just grab and go! 

2) Eggs- Eggs are one of the most versatile foods out there.  They can be made in an assortment of ways.  When they are hard boiled, they can last for days.   Here's a quick recipe for make ahead egg muffins.

3) Plain yogurt with fruit.  Yogurt is a great source of calcium and protein.  Beware of the added sugar that sneaks into some of your favourite brands.  To reduce your sugar intake reach for plain yogurt.  Add some honey to sweeten to your taste and top with your favourite fruit.

4) Smoothie- A  simple way to not only get lots of extra fruit into your diet but veggies too!   Here's a quick way to prepare a weeks worth of smoothies for a morning when you have to run out the door!


5) Clean Eating Banana Wrap- Quick, simple and a tasty treat!
What you need:  1 whole grain tortilla wrap; two Tbsp Almond Butter, or natural peanut butter and a banana.  Spread, slice, wrap and go!  

Make sure you drink a large glass of water too.  This is another great way to get your day off to the best possible start.

  

 

 

A Mommy Minute

Synonyms for Mother: Parent, source, attend, nurse, nurture, protect, provide for, accommodate, nourish, oblige, raise, rear, shelter, sustain.

Being a mother is all encompassing.  We can feel lost and found, overwhelmed and pulled together all at the same time.  Some days are easier and better than others.  At FITMOM we encourage our mother’s to take the road of motherhood one day at a time.  Yet we know that sometimes even that can be hard.  So if and when you are feeling overwhelmed here are 10 sanity savers, pick one and try it for 1 minute to help you get grounded.

Meditate:   This is not a word that we should be afraid of.  People who practice meditation are engaged in thoughtless awareness, to be present in the moment.    If meditation is new to you, try a mantra instead.  We like “This feeling is temporary” or “I can handle this”. Repeat these words for 1 minute.

Self-massage with a tennis ball:   Use a tennis ball to apply pressure to any areas of your body that need a little TLC.  Roll the ball on your legs, in between your shoulder blades, or the bottom of your feet.

Engage in a venting session: Call a friend on the phone and engage in a 60 second vent session. Be prepared to reciprocate the next time she needs to unload her concerns and frustrations. 

Dance party:  What’s your guilty pleasure song? Put it on, turn it up and dance like no one is watching.  We had a dance party while we wrote this list J

Laughing:  A good hearty laugh is a wonderful release of tension.  Check out this guy.  If you are not laughing now, then watch it again!   

Benefit from a hug:  Hugs release oxytocin, the hormone of love.  A good hug can help you feel calm and connected, especially if you are getting a hug from someone you love, like your baby or partner.  Stay in the hug for a solid minute and notice how you feel afterward.  A self-hug is a wonderful alternative if you find yourself alone.

Enjoy a stretch: Tight chest muscles are a common complaint amongst new moms. Start with a few shoulder rolls, then stand with your Right hip against a wall and stretch your Right arm behind you. Pair this stretch with some deep breathing and feel your chest muscles release.  Hold for 30 seconds then repeat on the other side.

Focus on breathing:  Deep breathing helps to calm and relax your central nervous system (fight or flight response).  Tension and anxiety is released on the exhale.  Breathe in through your nose and imagine a water pitcher in your belly, fill it up from the bottom to the top.  Exhale with a sigh as you slowly empty your pitcher.

Self-affirmation:  Tell yourself you’re great; tell yourself that you are doing a great job.  Say it loud, say it proud! We think this young lady has this skill down pat!

Gratitude:  Be thankful. Gratitude allows you to adjust your focus.  Instead of focusing on what you’re lacking, it shifts you to embrace all that you have.    Gratitude helps to put things into perspective.  Count your blessings, you have many.

 

 

FITMOM Durham's Move of the Week: Side Plank

The side plank is a staple core exercise in our FITMOM+Baby, FITWOMAN &  FITMOM2Be prenatal classes.  The side plank engages the muscles of the obliques, and other core stabilizers, as well as your shoulders and glutes.  Strong obliques help improve posture, reduce back pain as well as pubic discomfort both during pregnancy and the post-partum period. 


To perform a side plank:

1.Lie on the floor so that the left side of your body is facing the floor.

2. Stack your feet and knees together.  You should form a straight line from your joints (ankle, hip and shoulder).  Your spine should be neutral.

3. Ensure that your elbow is stacked under your shoulder to stabilize.

4. Engage your belly button to your spine as you press your Right hip up towards the ceiling. Hold for 6 seconds and then slowly lower to the floor.  Remember to breathe :) Repeat 3-5 times/side.  Beginners should start with fewer repetitions. 

There are tons of modifications and variations for side plank. To make it easier keep the bottom knee to the floor.  Make it harder by stacking your feet and lifting off the floor. Use a chair, a bench or the wall.  Have a busy toddler? Get him involved too! We like to shake it up in our FITMOM+Baby classes, join us on Tuesday in Oshawa or Wednesday in Pickering from 10:30-11:30am!

Boosting Energy & Balancing Weight! A Workshop for New Mom's

Hello Everyone!

I am so very excited to announce this new workshop.  I have partnered up with Kim from Appreciating Health to help the mamas we work with increase their energy and feel good in their bodies. 

We both know how challenging it can be for a mom to take care of herself properly.  We know you are the first one up, the last one fed and the one who is loved by your family the most!  So, to help you keep up with the demands of your day we have designed this fun and interactive workshop to address your questions regarding what to eat and how to move so you can feel fabulous!

I hope you can join us for the event!

FITMOM Durham Move of the week: The bicep curl

If you have a baby or a toddler then you know how important it is for your arms to be strong. That's why this weeks focus is the bicep curl.  Stronger arms means easier lifting and carrying of your baby, toddler, car seats and any other baby gear.  Women who are pregnant are more likely to strain their back during everyday lifting when their arms are not strong, so it is important to strengthen your arms during pregnancy too!

To perform a bicep curl:

1. Stand with feet shoulder width apart, knees slightly bent
2. Keep your shoulders back and lift your head up
3. Keep abdominals strong and lifted.
4.With weights in your hands firmly but not tightly, exhale as you lift your palm towards the ceiling while keeping your elbows close to your body.
5.Inhale and slowly release the arms down towards the floor again. Make sure to fully extend the arm to complete a full range of motion.

Beginners should start with a low weight (3-5lbs).  Advanced fitness levels can choose heavier weights and/or double up the weight in one hand for a set of repetitions.
Pick a weight that you can lift up to 10 repetitions with some effort for 1-3 sets. Increase your reps upto 15 for 2-3 sets. When this is no longer challenging you can slowly  increase weight and start back at your lowest repetition for 2-3 sets.  Continue in this way.

For the mom to be:                                        After baby:
Reps: 10-15 reps                                            Reps:12-15 reps
Sets:   1-2    sets                                             Sets: 2-3 sets


Remember to consult with your care provider before starting any new fitness routine. Avoid exercise if you feel any pain or discomfort.

FITMOM Durham's move of the week: The lunge

Lunges are one of the best compound exercises out there, next to the squat, of course!


Lunges target the quadriceps, gluteus maximus and hamstrings.  During pregnancy it is important to train these muscles because when they are strong they can help facilitate weight-bearing activities, making walking and standing easier as your belly grows, as well as support you during labour and birth.
 
After you give birth you should continue to train these muscles.  Doing so will improve your metabolism as well as your strength & stamina so that you can care for your baby easily.  Remember, the stronger you are the easier it will be to carry your baby, lift your baby in and out of seats, push the stroller and chase them as they grow!

There are tons of variations for the lunge.  As you get stronger you can progress from the forward lunge (as described below) to rear lunges, travelling lunges, or pulses to name a few.  At FITMOM, we like to do all of the above while using our baby's for motivation and added weight resistance.
 

1. To perform a basic  lunge start with your toes pointed straight ahead. 
2. Take one exaggerated step forward (more than a comfortable step) with the desired leg.  Land the heel of the front foot while the back foot is lifted with the heel off the floor.
3. Keep your knees and feet aligned.
4. Keep your head up, lift your chest up and hips facing forward.  Contract your abdominal muscles.
5. Inhale as you lower your back leg towards the ground.  The front knee remains directly over the ankle with the shin perpendicular to the ground.  Avoid the front knee from passing over the front toes.  Pause at the bottom of the movement, before the back knee touches the floor.
6. Exhale as you push off the front leg until you are back to your starting position. 

For the mom to be:                                                                   After baby:
Sets: 1-2                                                                                       Sets: 2-3
Reps: 10-15                                                                                 Reps: 12-15

 Remember to consult with your care provider before starting any new fitness routine. Avoid exercise if you feel any pain or discomfort.

How to make the most of your walks with baby

Walking is one of the most convenient and easiest ways for a new mom to make physical activity a part of her daily routine.  At FITMOM, we know first hand the positive and transformative impact regular exercise has on our mood, sleeping patterns and self-esteem, we hear it from our members all of the time! If you are already engaging in regular walks, but want to find out how to get the most out of them, then read on!

You may be surprised to learn that brisk walking/power walking can be as challenging as running, but it comes with the added benefit of being easier on your joints. This is especially important for new moms as the hormone Relaxin is still present between 3-6 months post-partum.  Reduce the chance of injury in the early post partum period by training properly and limiting high-impact exercises.

To make the most of your walks and to increase your metabolism you need to ditch the stroll and learn to power walk!  In fact, by challenging yourself to increase your pace and intensity you will increase the number of calories you burn overall.  Add in a healthy balanced diet, a strength training program and ensuring adequate rest and you will be well on your way towards meeting your fitness goals.  Remember, if you are new to fitness, start off slowly and gradually increase your intensity.  We recommend you meet with your physician before starting any new fitness program.

For best results, aim for at least 3 power walk and 1-2 interval training sessions per week.
The Pace (Measuring Intensity):
Warm up pace:  Think window shopping pace.  4 on a scale of 10.  3-5 minutes
Build up to a Brisk Walk.  The effort is about 5 or 6 out of 10.  If you are walking with a friend you can easily hold a conversation, but you need to catch your breath every few sentences.
Power Walk:  Torch it up!  You are moving at a clip.  Use your arms to propel forward.  The effort is 7 or 8 out of 10 in intensity.  Talking is possible only in spurts.

Best Practices:
1. Think Tall.  Lift your chin up.  Don’t look down at your feet.  Keep your stride long and head in line with your spine.
2. Engage your core; think belly button to spine.
3. Squeeze glutes: Your butt propels you forward through your walk, make the most of it!

It's important to challenge yourself!  Add variety to keep it interesting:
• Try hills.  Even a small incline can increase your calorie burn by 20%
• Swing your arms
• Take longer strides

Finally, don't forget to stretch!  Pay special attention to your quads, shins, hamstrings, ankles and calves.  I would also encourage you to  invest in a good pair of shoes, wear a supportive bra and remember to hydrate!

Step to it ladies!
For a sample walking program, click here

Exercise & Breastfeeding

 

I am often asked by new moms how exercise will impact breastfeeding, I was going through some of my resources when I came across this piece written by our FITMOM founder, Andrea Page, and I thought I would share it with all of you!  Enjoy :)

 

All new moms who choose to breastfeed are often concerned that the quality and supply of their milk may be compromised as a result of exercise.  Just as nursing moms tend to become meticulous about selecting healthy foods and avoiding toxins in pregnancy and postpartum, may are concerned that exercising may adversely affect their breast milk.  There are clear ways to reap all the benefits of exercise while producing an excellent supply of breast milk.  An exercise program that is complimented with adequate nutrition and fluids will increase your metabolism and your appetite (your body's request to be replenished as it requires). Exercise induced appetite increase is perfectly healthy when moms meet this physiological demand by consuming quality calories.  FITMOM suggests that you follow these guidelines to ensure that exercise will not affect the quality or quantity of your milk so that you and your baby can enjoy the many benefits of both fitness and breastfeeding:

 

Milk Supply:
It is recommended to wait at least six weeks before doing anything other than very low intensity exercise.  Aside from giving your body a chance to recover from birth, a new mom's number 1 focus is bonding with her baby and learning to breastfeed.  Frequen access to the breast in the first weeks of baby's life will help ensure an abundant & lasting milk supply, however, when you are ready to begin an exercise routine follow these recommendations to ensure your milk supply with be sustained.

 

1. Begin exercising on a slow and gradual progression.
2. Drink plenty of fluids throughout the day (carry a bottle of water with you):
• Proper hydration should occur 20- 30 minutes prior to exercise. (at least 500 ml)
• Throughout exercise every 10 –15 minutes 3 oz.
• Exercise should conclude with conscious rehydration. (at least 500 ml)
3. Caloric intake needs to increase:
• Vigorous exercise requires 200–300 calories per every half hour from the body
• Breastfeeding requires an additional 500 calories daily.

Remember, quality calories will help you to rebuild muscle tissue (lean muscle mass) and not store unnecessary saturated fats. Regular eating also promotes a more efficient metabolism.

Weight Loss:
Recommended postpartum weight loss is maximum 4 pounds a month initially then decreasing over time.

Lactic Acid: Lactic acid is a by-product of anaerobic or very high intensity exercise. It is believed to be the element that causes the immediate muscle soreness and fatigue or the “burn” we feel during intense workouts. After exercise breast milk contains higher levels of lactic acid. Babies most often do not reject milk at this time unless the exercise performed is at a very high intensity. Levels return to normal within 1 –1.5 hrs after exercise. If you can, breastfeed your baby before you workout. 

Some research also suggests that the antibody immunoglobulin A in breast milk largely decreases after very vigorous exercise but return to normal levels within 1 hour.

Proper Support:
Last but not least, make sure your bra is supportive enough during exercise. The extra weight of breasts during lactation can cause back pain especially if not properly supported. If your bra is very constricting for extra support this is fine for exercise purposes only. After exercise return to a bra that is designed specifically for breastfeeding.

Top 5 exercises for the new mom

 

Below are FITMOM's Top 5 exercises for the new mom. Each one addresses the muscular and biomechanical changes in the body of post partum women and improves endurance, strength and posture.

For those of you who have attended a FITMOM Class, you are well aware of the benefits of these 5 exercises! You know you love it! If you haven't been to a class yet, come on down and try them out either on your own or with us! You will love them too :)

1.Wall Sit
How: Lean your back against a wall and lower yourself until you have your legs are bent at a 90 degree angle.
Reps: 3 intervals of 30-60 seconds.
Benefits: A great stabilizing exercise that targets your abdominals and lower large muscles with very low risk of injury.

2.Side Plank
How: Lie down on one side of your body with your bottom leg bent for beginner or straight for advanced. Lift your hip off the ground and hold for 30 -60 seconds.
Reps: 3 intervals per side of 30-60 seconds.
Benefits: Widely considered one of the most important core exercises for postpartum women. It engages all of the stabilizing core muscles including the pelvic floor.

3.Flys
How: Stand with your feet shoulder width apart. Bend the knees slightly and lean forward at the hips to 45 degrees, keeping core firmly engaged. Create length through your spine and extend your arms, holding 1–5 lbs weights outwards and parallel above your thighs. Extend your arms (elbows slightly bent) out to the side (like a cross) and focus on clinching your shoulder blades together.
Reps: 2 sets of 20 repetitions
Benefits: This exercise helps improve posture and strengthens large back muscles to combat middle and upper back strain from pregnancy posture, baby wearing and baby holding postpartum.

Babywearing @ FITMOM

4. Curtsy Lunges
How: From a standing position, extend one leg back as far as you can with the knee slight bent in a lunge position. Then lower down similar to a traditional ladies curtsy.
Reps: 2 sets of 20 repetitions for each side.
Benefits: A great low impact exercise to strengthen and shape calves, quads and glutes. A much better option than a traditional lunge for women recovering from pubic symphysis.

5.Speed Skater
How: From a standing position, bend over at the hips to 45 degrees. Extend one leg as far as you can to the side. Squat with body weight centered over the stabilizing leg with knee slightly bent. As you elevate from the squatting position, also elevate the extended leg as high as you can off the floor.
Reps: 2 sets of 20 repetitions for each side.
Benefits: An exercise that both requires and helps restore balance. This exercise stabilizes the hip muscles and will support and encourage the realignment of your hips. As we all know, it is quite common for a woman's hips to widen during pregnancy.

 

*We recommend discussing your new fitness regime with your primary health care provider before engaging in any new physical activity.*