Showing posts with label newborns. Show all posts
Showing posts with label newborns. Show all posts

Friday, June 5, 2015

Curious about your baby's development?

FITMOM Classes are very unique, not only do we have ongoing discussions regarding conception, pregnancy, healthy eating and exercise, but we spend lots of time learning about how our babies are developing.  Recently I met with a local Physical Therapist who specializes in infant and child development.  Today she shares her best practices for incorporating tummy time & the importance of gross motor skill development.

Baby on the move
Winnie Wong at kiddiemoves@gmail.com.

Ever wonder about your baby's rolling, sitting, crawling, and walking skills? Is it okay to wait it out if these skills are not showing up yet? All of these skills are part of gross motor skills, because they are movements of the arms, legs and body. Parents can help or hinder the development of these skills early on. Imagine if someone cooked and cleaned for you every day ever since you were a child, would you learn those skills without practice?

Babies need to move to develop their muscles and coordination. With the Back to Sleep recommendation, babies are spending a lot of time on their back from the day they are born. With the vast availability of exersaucers, bouncy chairs, Bumbo seats, jolly jumpers, car seats and strollers, babies can be "contained" too much. They are essential when parents need to shower, cook in the kitchen, do an errand, but they should be used in minimally. Very often, babies are not getting enough time exploring the world on their tummy. As a result, there has been an increase in babies developing flat spot on their heads from spending too much time with the back of their heads against firm surfaces. Some babies are learning to sit, roll, or crawl later simply from lack of exploration time outside of baby equipment. One of the key component early on is supervised tummy time while baby is awake. It helps develop neck and arm strength which will build towards pushing up and crawling and later on walking.

All babies develop at their own pace. Does it matter if mine is later than yours?

Most certainly babies develop their moving skills at different rate, just as some people are natural born athletes. However babies who are behind in developing their moving skills may warrant further check up with a doctor or health care professional. Perhaps the reason is due to insufficient floor time. Or maybe there is a medical reason. Walking is a huge milestone but not the end. Gross motor skills become more challenging as a child gets older, such as riding a bike, skipping, climbing stairs without hand support, and hopping. If a child is walking later than expected, he/she may also then develop the more advanced gross motor skills later.

What can parents do?

Some simple playmats on the floor and interesting toys can be the start to exploration. Tummy time can be built in from day 1 with baby being awake and laying on mommy and daddy's chest. When tummy time is incorporated daily from day 1, baby will gradually learn to tolerate it more and more.

When baby is learning to sit on the floor, parents can be a gentle support around baby's waist or back. Give the baby a chance to totter a bit to learn what movement means. If baby is always leaning against parent for support, the baby will not learn to use their own muscles to maintain sitting. Put toys in front and to the side of baby to encourage them to reach for them. Give them a chance to reach instead of just putting the toy in front or right into baby's hands.

When baby is learning to crawl, it is also a good time to teach him/her to crawl up the stairs (even if 1-2 steps) with supervision. It will build towards coordinating the arms and legs to move in different motions, and also for getting up to standing.

When should parents be concerned?

There is a large range of typical development, but if baby is developing outside of the general range, then parents should bring their concerns to their health care provider.

Here are typical physical development guidelines provided by pathways.org:


  • By 3 months, while lying on tummy, baby is lifting and holding head up
  • By 6 months, baby is using hands to support self in sitting, rolls from back to tummy, and accepts entire weight when standing with support.
  • By 9 months, baby is sitting and reaching for toys without falling, moves from tummy/back to sitting, crawling on hands and knees with alternate arm and leg movement.
  • By 12 months, baby is pulling to stand and cruising along furniture. Baby is standing alone and takes several independent steps.
  • By 15 months, baby is walking independently and squats to pick up toys.


Signs to watch for as provided by pathways.org:


  • At 3 months, while lying on tummy, baby has difficulty lifting head. Legs are stiff with little or no movement.
  • At 6 months, baby is unable to hold head upright when sitting with support, arches back and stiffens legs when sitting with support.
  • At 9 months, baby is using one hand predominantly, showing poor use of arms in sitting, difficulty crawling, inability to straighten back when in sitting or standing with support, cannot take weight on legs in standing.
  • At 12 months, baby has difficulty getting to stand because of stiff legs and pointed toes, only uses arms to pull up to standing, sits with weight to one side, strongly flexed or stiffly extended arms, needs to use hands to maintain sitting.
  • At 15 months, baby is unable to take steps independently, poor standing balance and falls frequently, or walk on toes.


If baby shows some of these signs above, then share your concerns with your child's doctor or health care provider.

Parents are often on the lookout for the sitting, crawling and standing milestones. One of the crucial one that gets missed is the ability to transition between sitting and tummy/hands and knees/back position by 9 months. Often babies are learning to sit by 6-9 months and may inadvertently be left in sitting for long periods of time on the floor. Some will figure out how to transition into hands and knees position, and some will continue sitting and eventually use bum scooting as a method to move. Crawling was once thought to be an optional phase of development. However its importance in hand and arm development is now being recognized, ranging from developing handwriting skills to hauling oneself out of the pool.

Where can parents get help? 
Parents can share their concerns with the baby's doctor or health care provider. Parents can also find Pediatric Physiotherapists who are licensed with the College of Physiotherapists of Ontario and has unique knowledge of child development. A Paediatric Physiotherapist will assess the baby to see how his/her development is compared to the typical range of skills. If a baby's skills is considered to be behind, the Physiotherapist can work with the baby and family to progress those skills.

For further information, please contact Winnie Wong at kiddiemoves@gmail.com.

Friday, December 27, 2013

New Prenatal Yoga Series Starts January 13th, 2014

With the holidays behind us, we are gearing up for what will be a fantastic New Year for 2014.  Over our holiday break I have spoken with many families who are expecting something pink or blue in 2014.  I am always really excited to speak with you and to share my passion for health & fitness, not only during your pregnancy, but afterwards as well!  This week, I thought I would share some of the well documented benefits that regular exercise has for both mom and baby:

Benefits For the Mom to be:
  • Regular exercise can improve circulation, reduce back pain and increase energy
  • Women who practice yoga during pregnancy report a reduction in stress and enjoy the bonding experience with baby
  • Group  classes allow for open discussions on topics relating to pregnancy, childbirth and the postpartum experiences
  • Women who attend our classes report a feeling of increased confidence in their body as they prepare for childbirth
Benefits For the baby:
  • Increased delivery of oxygen and nutrients to baby 
  • Higher APGARS (Activity / Pulse / Grimace / Appearance /Respiration) which means they are generally more alert, and active at birth
  • Tend to have more lean muscle mass, which means, generally speaking, these babies will be stronger
  • Easier time establishing breastfeeding
  • Babies born to active women have stronger heart rates at birth & 3 months post partum.  (2010 Linda E May)
Our next Prenatal Yoga Series "Yoga Vibe for Birth" starts Monday January 13th, 2014 7:30-8:30pm at The Conscious Body in Whitby.  Registration is now open. 
Book now, spaces are limited!
$145+tax/10 weeks
$90+tax/5 weeks

Monday, July 22, 2013

Fitness and the immediate post -partum period

Recently, I have received a few emails from clients who have recently had baby's about the type of exercises they could do in the early post partum period.  I posted this article a while back, but thought it was time to share it again!

If you’ve just had a baby, exercise is probably not your number one priority right now. Diaper changes, bath time, snuggling, shushing and feeding schedules are taking up all of your time and your energy! However, there are a few things a new mom can do to help recover from her birth and make the first steps back towards fitness in the first weeks and months of your new baby’s life.

The Immediate Post-Partum Period (Weeks 1-6)

Note: If you have experienced a traumatic vaginal birth or C-section you should speak with your care provider to determine what types of exercises are recommended for you and when you can resume.

The Pelvic Floor/Kegals

If you have had an uncomplicated vaginal delivery then you will likely find it fairly easy to resume pelvic floor exercises, like kegals, as early as 24 hours after the birth. Strengthening the pelvic floor in the early days can help to speed the healing process of the perineum (to encourage blood flow to the area) and will also help to reduce incontinence caused by pregnancy. Try 2–3 sets of 20, holding each muscle contraction from 1–2 seconds, increasing the length of time as your strength improves.

Belly Breathing (Isometric Exercise)
Imagine your lungs are in your belly. Expand your belly as you inhale (you will see your belly get bigger) as you exhale, pull your belly button back toward your spine. Hold your abdominals (not your breath) in this position for 3 seconds, increasing to 10.  These isometric exercises help to build up the Transverse Abdominals (TVA).   Work upto 3 sets of 20.

Pelvic Tilt Lie on your back with your knees bent. Press the small of your back into the floor while simultaneously lifting your pelvic bone towards your belly button.  Work upto 3 sets of 20

Side Lying Leg Lifts

These are great exercises to do while feeding the baby! Lie on your side with your top leg resting in front of the bottom. Begin by lifting the bottom leg up and down slowly Work upto 3 sets of 20. Repeat with the top leg. Afterwards switch sides.

Shoulder Rotations

The increased weight and size of your breasts coupled with the long periods of holding baby in common feeding postures causes many new mothers to complain of muscle pain and tension between their shoulder blades. Shoulder rotations will not only remind you to correct your posture but will strengthen this muscle group at the same time, and can easily be done in a seated position. Begin by lifting your shoulders up towards your ears and rotate them backwards, then squeeze your shoulder blades together. Drop back to normal position and repeat. Try 3 sets of 20.

After your Post-Partum Check Up (6 weeks and beyond)

Once your care provider has completed his/her exam and you are cleared for exercise you may begin a more challenging fitness program.

• Walking is a wonderful weight-bearing and low impact activity that many moms do on a regular basis, but it’s still important to remember to go slow at first. As you increase your strength and stamina you will be able to increase your intensity and speed. Listen to your body and don’t push too fast too soon.

• Classes are a great way to build a network of support for you and socialization for your baby. An exercise program that is designed just for moms and new babies should address general concerns related to being a new mom as well as fitness-related issues. Make sure your class is led by a certified fitness instructor who has experience with prenatal and postnatal women.

• Consume quality calories and drink plenty of water. Eating right and staying hydrated will ensure both you and your baby have the right nutrition & energy needs to meet the demands that motherhood brings.

• Remember to build in time to rest. Try to go to bed early. Being disciplined in this area will help you feel better overall.

Most importantly, be kind and gentle to yourself and remember to take it one day at a time!

Tuesday, April 2, 2013

For those of you who struggle

I came to be a co-sleeper out of necessity, not by choice.   The physical toll of sleep deprivation was a shocking revelation of the parenting experience.  You can never be prepared for the lack of sleep, especially for those of us who have been blessed with the 'non-sleepers'.

I quickly realized that when Ben and I were sleeping side by side we both slept for longer periods and were cozy and warm together, often mimicking the same sleeping positions (of which there are way too many photos of, but none that I can easily access to share with you, oh darn!).  Ben would start every sleep in his crib but after the first or second feeding through the night we would be back in my bed together to catch some sleep.  Eventually, I gave up trying to keep us separated and was happy to have this little creature that I loved taking up residence beside me.  My husband was also a reluctant co-sleeper, and yet, we all managed to adapt to this new lifestyle. 

Over the years as Ben grew up he spent less time sleeping with us and more time sleeping alone.  Eventually our middle of the night encounters spread out and he has become, over time, what one would describe as a good sleeper.  However, tonight as he went to bed he said what all babies must feel, but can't express : "Mommy, when I sleep beside you, I feel safe."  My response was "Of course you do!  That is why I am the mom and you are the kid".  We cuddled up in his bed for the last of his bedtime snuggles and soon he was off to sleep. 

So for those of you who find themselves struggling with the decision to co-sleep or not hear this: if it feels right to you then do it.  Remember that your baby can't always articulate how he is feeling but as my wise Ben has said,  everyone feels safer when they are together. 

Sweet Dreams!

Thursday, June 14, 2012

Exercising after Baby: Simple exercises for the new mom!

If you’ve just had a baby, exercise is probably not your number one priority right now. Diaper changes, bath time, snuggling, shushing and feeding schedules are taking up all of your time and your energy! However, there are a few things a new mom can do to help recover from her birth and make the first steps back towards fitness in the first weeks and months of your new baby’s life.

The Immediate Post-Partum Period (Weeks 1-6)

Note: If you have experienced a traumatic vaginal birth or C-section you should speak with your care provider to determine what types of exercises are recommended for you and when you can resume.

The Pelvic Floor/Kegals

If you have had an uncomplicated vaginal delivery then you will likely find it fairly easy to resume pelvic floor exercises, like kegals, as early as 24 hours after the birth. Strengthening the pelvic floor in the early days can help to speed the healing process of the perineum (to encourage blood flow and oxygen to the area) and will also help to reduce incontinence caused by pregnancy. Try 2–3 sets of 20, holding each muscle contraction from 1–2 seconds, increasing the length of time as your strength improves.

Belly Breathing (Isometric Exercise)
Imagine your lungs are in your belly. Expand your belly as you inhale (you will see your belly get bigger) as you exhale, pull your belly button back toward your spine. Hold your abdominals (not your breath) in this position for 3 seconds, increasing to 10. Work upto 3 sets of 20.

Pelvic Tilt Lie on your back with your knees bent. Press the small of your back into the floor while simultaneously lifting your pelvic bone towards your belly button.  Work upto 3 sets of 20

Side Lying Leg Lifts

These are great exercises to do while feeding the baby! Lie on your side with your top leg resting in front of the bottom. Begin by lifting the bottom leg up and down slowly Work upto 3 sets of 20. Repeat with the top leg. Afterwards switch sides.

Shoulder Rotations

The increased weight and size of your breasts coupled with the long periods of holding baby in common feeding postures causes many new mothers to complain of muscle pain and tension between their shoulder blades. Shoulder rotations will not only remind you to correct your posture but will strengthen this muscle group at the same time, and can easily be done in a seated position. Begin by lifting your shoulders up towards your ears and rotate them backwards, then squeeze your shoulder blades together. Drop back to normal position and repeat. Try 3 sets of 20.

After your Post-Partum Check Up (6 weeks and beyond)

Once your care provider has completed his/her exam and you are cleared for exercise you may begin a more challenging fitness program.

• Walking is a wonderful weight-bearing and low impact activity that many moms do on a regular basis, but it’s still important to remember to go slow at first. As you increase your strength and stamina you will be able to increase your intensity and speed. Listen to your body and don’t push too fast too soon.

• Classes are a great way to build a network of support for you and socialization for your baby. An exercise program that is designed just for moms and new babies should address general concerns related to being a new mom as well as fitness-related issues. Make sure your class is led by a certified fitness instructor who has experience with prenatal and postnatal women.

• Consume quality calories and drink plenty of water. Eating right and staying hydrated will ensure both you and your baby have the right nutrition & energy needs to meet the demands that motherhood brings.

• Remember to build in time to rest. Try to go to bed early. Being disciplined in this area will help you feel better overall.

Most importantly, be kind and gentle to yourself and remember to take it one day at a time!

Thursday, October 21, 2010

It's hard work being a new mom

Really, it is!

Check out Canadian Families Magazine for a few tips on doing with style, grace and flair!

My colleague and friend Steafanie Antunes, founder of Discover Birth, also shares some insight into your newborns emotional and physical development as it relates to the 4th trimester. Do you know what she is referring to? You will after you watch this video!


Enjoy!